Introduction
After this blog, you will not need to read any blog on silence again if you understand by reading the content carefully.
The Power of Silence
Let’s understand this with two examples, Tom and Jerry.
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Tom wakes up early in the morning, goes to his job, is doing well but is a talkative person, keeps on saying whatever he wants to in front of whomever he wants to, thinks he is very cool, keeps on doing this in front of people and all the people or his small friends also give him a lot of respect, brother you talk so much, you speak so well, you keep on speaking like this, and with this confidence, Tom feels that what is the need to think much in the world, say whatever comes to your heart and in this way he achieves small things and keeps moving forward but in this affair, he is never able to sit quietly with himself.
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The second example is of Jerry, he is also in the same job, both start together, Jerry is an aware person, he is not a fool, he is a calm person, who does not know anything, he sits calmly, a person is aware, he knows when to speak, how much to speak and in front of whom to speak, so Jerry understands this thing and goes to his job, but when he gets time, he calmly stops himself, he locks himself in his office without speaking unnecessarily, studies after lunch, improves his skill, gradually achieves mastery, gradually he gets promotions with speed .
Then Tom thinks that I like everyone so much, I am able to impress everyone so much in my talks, but why am I not able to move ahead, but Jerry is working on himself without saying anything, without babbling too much and people also like him, he is also giving good results, so what is happening, the reason is Jerry is having the power of silence, Jerry knows when to speak, how much to speak, how calmly to speak, how many words to use, It is important so that his work gets done and the other person also keeps loving him. Now you tell me in the comments whose victory is sure in the long term .
A person who cannot sit quietly on his own will think within himself how will he go within himself otherwise how will he bring out his hidden potential, and if the potential itself does not come out then how will you give to the world what the world is demanding from you and if you do not give to the world then how will you get money, name, fame, success, whatever you are looking for for yourself, these people do not understand that it does not mean that you do not have to speak, but you have to speak and you have to speak after thinking, if you speak like a babble then you will stop, when will you take a hold, and if you do not pause then you will think when will you go inside your mind.
And the story that you just heard from Tom to Jerry, this is my story, earlier I was also a Tom, being very cool, blabbering all the time, in front of society, in front of family, in front of relatives, no matter, keep lowering your respect, but today, if you meet me, then probably you will say, do you also talk too much, yes I speak but when I need it, not all the time where I get the result because I know that speaking means I am destroying my capability to think, if I keep on speaking, keep on speaking, what will happen, I will not get hold, if I do not get hold, then good thoughts will not come, if thoughts do not come, good content will not come, good courses will not come, good blog will not be created, good growth will not be possible .
You must have seen the ‘Peaky Blinders’ series and whoever has seen it cannot deny this thing. The character of Thomas Shelby, we are all very much attracted to him. He has a lot of qualities, no doubt that he is having the mastery of eye contact, how to talk to girls, how to communicate, how to show leadership qualities, but we are big fans of one thing about him, that he is having the power of silence. In every situation or maximum situation, his brothers, his people, the brothers around him, everyone started to taunt, started to lose their patience, but he was unable to move. You know, his family was being attacked, but he would stop all the time, he would take a pause before speaking. He knew that his words come at a price. Speaking unnecessarily means lowering one’s respect, and he became the darling of everyone’s hearts.
So we will take this content step by step, first we will understand the top five benefits to remain silent
The first benefit is that you will avoid any kind of argument
Remember the last time you had an argument with your boss, your father, your colleague, girlfriend, anyone because you did not know how to stop. If someone said anything to you, your ego was so fragile that you immediately retorted and immediately got into an argument. And what did you get later? You just regretted. You should not have spoken, you should not have done it, you should not have argued. Regret is the power when you remain silent because when you choose your words, you choose with your convection, you have the conviction,and when convection of talking nobody care of you ignore you prsence .
Second benefit is that you will kill in your work
Whatever field you enter, you will create a stir in it. Suppose I am a human being, I wake up in the morning, at 8:00 am or whatever time I wake up, but my mind is calm. I wake up in the morning and drink coffee. I come to the table calmly. Thousands of thoughts in my mind do not capture my brain. I sit calmly and get lost in the flow of creativity for the next two hours. I sip coffee, I write, I sip coffee. I write, I give amazing content, people like it, there is a transformation in people’s lives, I also keep growing, so when you learn to stop, when you learn to work silently, learn to silently pause yourself, a deep bus comes in your work and when the work becomes deep, you also know that deep work is done for two to three to four hours, those people who claim that I work for 12-12 hours, you will leave them behind very soon, to be silent and by being silent you are able to think creatively, you are able to get more output in less time and you will get another benefit of this that you will not become a consumer, you will become a producer, producer means in today’s economy most people are consumers, that means let’s take the example of a reel, suppose you know there are very few people who make reels or videos but the people who consume it are in millions, so if you become a producer, then obviously there will be a lot of growth for you. It is not impossible, suppose you are writing a book, you are building a business, you are providing services to people, you are growing, you are doing well in studies, then automatically you are a producer, you are contributing, if you contribute then your growth is done and to contribute you will have to sit silently with yourself .
The third amazing benefit is that you will have a very good relationship with people
whether it is with your mother, father, girlfriend, boyfriend, husband, wife or your siblings, you will have a wonderful relationship because remember, if you can listen to the other person, a person is coming from his heart, suppose something very bad has happened in his life, he has had a breakup today, he wants to talk to you and you are just giving advice without listening to anything, take this, take this, take this, take this, he will listen to you and tell you that I really cannot trust this person, but what if that person comes to you, you are sitting quietly, just listening, understanding, you are taking his heart out in your heart, that person will say, friend my heart became lighter by talking to him and then tell me whether he will trust you or not and the relationship between you two will deepen or not, this is the power when you master silence, stop and think before speaking, understand the other person more and have a deeper relationship with him Build a relationship and stay here and I give you a special advice for this. I would like to tell you guys or men that whether you are girls or anyone I would say that people like mystery. People enjoy solving mysteries. Think for yourself. Suppose you enter a room, your personality is very attractive. Your body, the way you enter the room, the way you make eye contact, and after that you do not speak much. You quietly take your seat and sit. Everyone will think what is in this man. I want to know what is in him. This friend is very strange, there is something very unique in him and people would like to know about you. People like to solve mysteries. The more you remain silent, the more mysterious you will appear. Thomas will be mysterious. That is why he was a very dangerous person. You are afraid of earthquakes because you cannot predict them. It is a mystery. When will it come, when will it create a stir and when will it go away. No one knows. This power gives you silence. And understand one more thing that mature women like men who remain silent. Being silent means you know fool. It is not that you do not speak anything. You sit like a fool. no no you choose your words carefully you know that when you speak the whole room will listen you’ve worked so much on yourself you know you have an aura, a charisma, that kind of thing and girls like that, even if he shows it on a superficial level .
The fourth benefit is that whenever you go, its price will be very high.
You know if I take the example of a diamond, a diamond is a stone, a precious stone but it is a stone but the price of that stone is in crores. Suppose today it has started raining diamonds, it is raining, a lot of diamonds are coming, then how much will that diamond cost? ₹ 10, ₹ 50, ₹ 1, the price of a diamond will remain the same but it knows how to find its price because it is very difficult to get. So in the same way when you choose your words and speak very carefully then everyone knows that now he will say something unique, something profound, everyone will listen to you, the impact of your words will be very deep and on this I would like to remind you that stop this social media drama, you keep boasting, keep looking cool, nowadays a trend has started everywhere, I see you keep talking so much, whether you are in a relationship or in anything else, keep talking, keep talking, this way you will lose your character. Especially as a muscular man, every time you choose your words and actions and you do not have to go very far to understand this, you have seen the character of Thomas Selby in the series of Peaky Blinders, silence is the thing that makes you master, it teaches you to stop.
And finally silence makes you dangerous
Silence makes you dangerous do you know Ratan Tata when we think about him what comes to mind a working personality, a stable personality a calm person Steve Jobs Bill Gates Elon Musk Swami Vivekananda. All are masters of silence their work was so dangerous that the person in front would get scared that yaar he never spoke, where did he disappear but when he spoke it was through his work but when he spoke it was through action everybody was like brilliant person.
Now let us understand how to achieve mastery over silence & we will understand this in 3 points
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The first is to master the input to master the output. Whatever goes in here will come out. Garbage goes, garbage will come out. Good goes, good will come out. You are watching useless things like Big Boss day and night and you are thinking that you will lose patience, you will not be able to be patient. There, ignorant people are fighting daily. You will see them, you will say that if these people can fight being such big celebrities, then why can’t I fight? Why can’t I keep on blabbering, blabbering, blabbering, think about it. But when you read at people, you will say that they have touched such greatness and by being so silent, then your mind will open. So change the input, stop putting this garbage completely. From today, whatever you watch, Big Boss, what is all this useless, you will not go anywhere. You can get a dopamine hit. I will talk brutally, you will not reach anywhere by coming on camera. I am telling you again, you will curse yourself throughout your life, but once you understand that these are bad things, throw them out and throw them away. Whatever you put in, learn only that until you read the silent people. You will not understand the discovery, how by remaining silent Nikola Tesla Sir invented electricity, today we are able to enjoy so many things, so many big discoveries have happened around, all of these have happened in silence, pick up a book, Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill, go and read it, so many deep secrets are told in it, how silence has been talked about, knowing yourself, knowing your subconscious and unless you do not sit, how will it happen, from today onwards, pick up a book for 15-20 minutes daily, read daily, read daily, reading a book is like breathing, reading a book should be like breathing for you because unless you do not have a good source of information, good output will not come out, read, watch good people .
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Second rule, from today onwards to practice silence , whenever you meet someone, always follow the rule of three-second pause before speaking. Take a pause of two-three seconds and speak from here. Look at this thing, lock it and lower the volume a little. Take a pause from here and speak comfortably. You are not going anywhere. You will take a pause like this and speak. You will have a great way. And whenever you have to speak, I am reminding you again, take a pause of two-three seconds. The world is not moving. So, you speak with moderation. Whatever you speak, speak after thinking. If you speak after thinking, people will start seeing its effect and take it seriously. And how many people are really going to practice this? Tell me in the comments. And if you do this properly for two-three months, you will come and thank me because I practice it daily. I choose my words. No matter how much people provoke me that why don’t you become an open book? You don’t reveal much about yourself. I choose my words. I calculate. I don’t talk unnecessarily. But I believe my strength is my communication, otherwise I am also an animal, if I can put my point across properly then that is my strength, so why should I not choose my words, when God has given me this power.
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The third rule is the king of them all, you must master meditation. Meditation means imagine me, I am such a person, suppose I get up at 8:00 in the morning but for half an hour I just sit by myself without doing anything, I just sit, no thoughts, no tension of the future, no trauma of the past, I live in the present and the day you start doing this meditation for 10 to 20 days, 30 days, but understand the power of meditation, until you are not calm from here, whatever happens in the world, you will immediately shake, but once you become calm from here, no matter how much disturbance there is in the world, you will remain stable, so start with 10 minutes of meditation every day, think if you can do this even for five to 10 minutes every day, then how much power, how much grip you will get when you speak and people will listen to you and I am I know completely, I am telling you from my experience, you will be able to see your changes, the love of people which I am getting because I have to overcome my silence and silence makes you powerful, do not be afraid thinking that people will say that I have become weak No, the power is with you. You choose when to speak and how to speak. Watch your breath. How is it happening? It is going deep inside you and then coming back. You have to do this at least 30-40 times daily. You will find yourself holding on. This is the basic method of meditation. It is very deep. The meditation in it is very deep. But figure out how to keep yourself silent. Then remember, silence is not a pretense. If you are meeting a girl or someone or a business partner, then you will sit quietly for some time. You will look cool. Silence is a quality for you. You have to inculcate it within you. You and it will become one. For this, you have to remain silent daily. If you pretend, people will definitely catch you.
I am 17+, this content made me understand a lot at this age, it was helpful, the content was in detail, the story was also good, the way of understanding was very good, it also told the benefits, how to become a master of silence, it was also told well, thank you, I am very happy, bring more helpful content like this .
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